I’ve been reflecting a little on 2015 and considering what this year has to bring. It’s interesting how years don’t go exactly like you plan…
My word for 2015 was “settle.” Life had been crazy, hectic, with lots of growth and change and newness. So much of that was good, but hard, and it was wearing me down. I wanted to breathe. To be.
It didn’t go exactly as I planned. It was still kind of crazy (pregnancy), intense (new wood floors installed in the ENTIRE house), stressful (employee turnover), but I did settle. I worked on making Suffolk our home, on cultivating relationships here, on learning my new position with determination to perform well.
Now we start a brand new year, with a brand new baby due in just two short weeks. This year will be unlike any other (of course, I could say that every year). It will be the only year that we have our first little one. It will be the only year that we become parents.
So this year, in spite of the exhaustion and busyness that comes with have a new babe (folded laundry may be a thing of the past), I want to savor each and every minute. Because we will never be able to go backward and retrieve this time with our first little one.
So there it is, savor.
The good (baby snuggles), the bad (complete lack of sleep), the new (so many firsts in that first year!), the mundane (yet another diaper change?) — I want to soak it all in, each and every day.
More thoughts on just what that looks like to come. For now, I’m savoring the last few weeks of my only first pregnancy.
Your first pregnancy only happens once, and mine has truly flown by (at least since the 24/7 nausea finally subsided at 22 weeks).
I haven’t had much time to savor it, but I am trying to make the most of my last few weeks with this little one on the inside while I look forward to holding him or her in my arms soon. And so I can savor this pregnancy for the rest of my life, a few photos to remember it by:
It’s hard to believe I’m already half way through this pregnancy. At first, the days seemed to drag on (24/7 nausea, excessive saliva production, and constant fatigue will do that). But for the last several weeks, time has just flown by. Before I know it, the holidays will be here and gone and the baby will be arriving.
I’m trying to savor the moment though, now that the majority of the nausea has subsided (thank you Diclegis!).
I’m starting to find it harder to do certain things, like bending over (squishes the baby) or squeezing through tight spaces (can’t suck this belly in). I’m also finding it a little harder to concentrate sometimes as Baby wiggles and kicks and flips around in my belly distracting me from whatever is at hand. For some reason, while I’m driving seems to be one of Baby’s favorite active times…
I’m savoring the feeling though, because it won’t always be like this. I want to be able to look back and say I enjoyed it while it lasted.
We’re working away at our pre-baby project list and planning our 5 year anniversary vacation to New England. Hard to believe it’s almost fall already. I’ve had the windows open the last few days and it’s been downright chilly when I go out to feed before dawn (48* this morning!). As a self-proclaimed lover of all things fall, I’m beyond excited for the change in weather. I even brought out the plaid and red boots.
So here’s to enjoying a lovely fall, not being too busy, and prepping for the lovely little addition that will be joining us soon =).
I’m trying to enjoy this season of pregnancy (as much as I can with the incessant nausea still sticking around at 19 weeks…). But one way to view our wonderful January 22 due date is as a deadline of sorts.
There are the obvious pre-baby projects like setting up the nursery that need to happen, and there are those projects that I think will be helpful for our new rhythm and routine of life when it changes forever in 2016.
A few things on the list:
Pay off my truck
Purchase a second baby-friendly vehicle (this might not happen until after baby, but we can start looking once the truck is paid off)
Get a new roof (before hurricane season!)
Wood floors installed throughout the house
Remove sliding glass door in dining room, install french doors
Paint sun room, nursery closets, front porch, nursery closet doors
Paint shutters, front door, trim
Install shelves in the pantry, study and garage to enable us to organize
Organize study, books and sewing/craft stuff, purge anything unnecessary, cull 1/4 (roughly 300) books!
Organize clothes and purge (both Husband and me)
Organize pantry/laundry items, store breakables on high shelves
Organize, purge, put away breakables in dining room
Start some new habits: one full load of laundry from hamper to drawers each day, 15 minute cleanup at the end of each day
Set up and decorate the nursery, organize baby items
Turn the study into a study/guest room
Make some freezer meals!
Clean up/organize the barn before baby and winter
Install dog door and fenced area for Ginger
Prepare for winter: buy firewood, purchase/set up electric buckets/stock tank heaters, enclose barn entry, install sliding stall door, fix fireplace damper
Go on a REAL vacation!! (Our 5th anniversary is coming up and we’re combining that celebration with a final pre-baby trip, heading up to Vermont to view the fall foliage.)
The goal is to get all of these things done before November. Then November, December and January can be spent keeping up with work (the busiest time of year), enjoying the holidays with family, and resting at home before Baby arrives. I have visions of spending the fall/winter curled up on the couch with a good book, a roaring fire and a warm blanket. (Maybe not the reality of the last few months of pregnancy, but a girl can dream!)
You may (or may not) have noticed I’ve been conspicuously absent from this space. Except for a few book reviews, I haven’t had much to say this summer.
The delay was for a good reason though, I’ve been dealing with things like morning sickness for the past few months =).
So happy to announce that coming in January 2016, we’ll be welcoming our first little one!
I’m 18 weeks, still feeling sick most of the time, but extremely excited. We don’t know if it’s a boy or a girl, and we’ve decided to wait and be surprised come January. That makes some parts of pregnancy a little tricky (we don’t want to call our baby “it” after all), but also makes me so excited.
So this summer has been full of a lot of survival. Laundry didn’t get done, the house didn’t get cleaned, the dog didn’t get bathed. But I managed to survive (and eat a ton because I was ALWAYS hungry), we got through our first summer at the farmer’s market and even got a new roof put on the house. I’m hoping that as summer winds down and we move into fall, life will find some semblance of normal again (wishful thinking?) as we tackle a few more house projects and prepare for our new arrival.