Six months in I’m often getting ask how I’m doing. The whole mom thing, is it good?
The short answer is, yes. I love being Fiona’s mother. The baby thing comes pretty naturally to me (and I’ve had a lot of practice with 10 nieces and nephews!).
The long answer is, it’s complicated. The mom thing I’m loving. The work thing is great. It’s the combination that’s hard. I’m still figuring out a rhythm to being a working mom. How do I give my all at work and still have enough of me left over for this precious babe and Husband? Left over? What an awful way to word that. My family should be my first priority, Husband and babe come first. But in real life, they come at the end of a long, arduous day.
I managed to get out of the house this morning on time (because I woke up at 5:00), without spit-up on my shirt (this is a miracle), with lunch (yesterday’s because I never had time to eat yesterday), and breakfast already eaten (yay!). I felt like I was on top of it. I dropped Fiona off at her nanny’s and headed into work, where I promptly noticed something white all over my black boots, dust? No, spit-up. Lovely. I’ll clean it off as soon as I get to my office, I thought. But I didn’t. That spit-up went right back home with me at the end of the day. Read more →
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There’s a lot that I could say about my mom. I could tell you how she stayed at home with us kids for years when we were young. I could tell you about how she purposefully home-schooled each of us for 5th grade, or how she fostered my love of reading by devoting an hour of quiet time just to me…
But today, I think I want to stick with just one thing–the one that means the most right now.
Like most mothers and daughters, Mom and I haven’t always seen eye-to-eye–especially when I was a teenager… But as we grow, things change. And today, my mom is one of my closest friends.
I really can’t express how much that means to me as I have moved through a half-dozen states and embarked on so many new adventures. My friends, even very, very close ones, often come and go from life swiftly. But Mom is a steady friend, often the one I talk to on a regular basis. One from whom I can ask advice and glean wisdom. One with whom I can share struggles and triumphs.
So this Mother’s Day I’m thinking of my mom, not because she is my mom, but because she is so much more.